Today I am shredding some positive light on our fine Black men.
Limited “useful” men
Finding a decent man to start a family with, build a future with and invest your all in has been within its challenges. Now more than ever it seems difficult to find a good Black man. It is even more difficult to want to continue dating Black men after being hurt many times.
There are many men who have died, are incarcerated, are gay, migrated, already in a committed relationship, joined the army and the balance are players and not interested in a serious relationship.
Who are straight women going to date?
Support our Black men
Some media outlets have portrayed Black men as being angry, sex offenders, murderers, thieves, abusers, drug addicts, promiscuous, in extreme poverty, socioeconomically deprived and prone to poor mental health and with a blurred future. This paints a negative image of our Black men and sometimes subconsciously affect how we feel about them.
Black people we need to support each other instead of fighting our own race. We need to stop the racism towards each other but rather love each other.
Top reasons dating a Lucian man is beneficial
1-This reason tops it for me so no need for an explanation. Lucian men are good in bed and well endowed. When you develop an emotional connection and deep attraction with a Lucian man, your every body part tingles when you see them.
2-Lucian men may have fears and insecurities and guard their emotions due to past trauma and bad relationships but as they gain your trust then they become devoted. They continuously work to ensure a successful relationship.
3-Some Lucian men may not be the wealthiest but they try to keep the romance, give you their time and keep a healthy relationship as best they can. A trying Black man is an ideal man.
4-Lucian men are loving, understanding, easy-going, supportive, pay attention to you and can make you their secret obsession. Lucian men can touch your soul and make your heart smile.
5-Lucian men are non-judgemental, can make you feel safe and you can be yourself around them and display all your bad habits because they accept you for who you are.
Women and false ideation
It is not a man’s job to make you happy. Women you are responsible for your own happiness and a man should be a contributor to your happiness. Women stop having a movie-like, fake or social media ideology of what your relationship should look and be like.
What you see out there is most times unreal and painted to fool you and change your mindset. Envy your relationship, work to improve it daily and not that of others. Do what works for you so you can be happiest.
Special note: the top reasons to date a Lucian man may or may not apply to all men.
Do you agree or disagree with the top reasons? Share and leave a response.
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This is not a paid or sponsored blog post but written based on multiple discussions about dating Lucian men, women’s expectations and men’s roles in a relationship.
Love the topic (s). We are thirsty for more so hurry up with part 2
😊😊😊 thank you Bev
The grass will stay green if it’s nutrients is well applied
Agreed Kenneth
Want to say thank you reems on behalf of the Lucia men for having our backs, because most women have an opinion which is not the way forward for relationship its more for a fling,but when a woman like you can see deep into a real mans heart and speak about it,I must say thanks a million with respect. Because to many times we carry load from a bad relationship to a new one and expect a different result, no let go and the person for who they are not for what has happened to you before, use the pass mistakes to correct yourself in future to be happy.
Thank you for commenting Alban! I agree that sometimes women want a fling and not a relationship but after being hurt many times you just feel like what’s the point of investing in another relationship. It is easy to carry the load from a past relationship into a new one especially if you have not discovered yourself, did not get over what transpired in the relationship, have not forgiven yourself and the person or if you entered into the other relationship too quickly. Black men need more credit for the good they do.
Aa…was looking for more to read. Captivating and had me smiling from ear to ear because alot of what you stated are specifically if they are really into you.
That is nice the post had you smiling Cindy 😃. I will write a longer one just for you 😉.