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Some say men stay if they want to and others say men stay if they are treated right. What are your thoughts?

Different men

Some men get women to do everything for them.

These women go above and beyond. They keep themselves behind and choose these men over everything and everyone.

How to lose a man

The best way to lose a man is to be clean, cook the best meals and care most about them.

Love them unconditionally and give them money occasionally to look good and take care of their needs.

Stay faithful and be drama free and caring.

Consider them in all that you do.

Cater to their needs and give them sex regularly and ensure that it is the best.

Give them their “me time” and always try your best to see things from their point of view.

Nurse them back to good health when they are sick and even help their relatives when the need arises.

Put your time and effort into them. Make plans and include them.

Show no interest in other men.

Ah ha

Sadly, some women do all these things in hopes of keeping a man and it chases him faster.

The man might say, “what do you do for me, you do nothing for me or I didn’t ask you to do all that.”

No shame

Women can be their best selves for men and these same men will move on with no remembrance of the goodness of that woman.

Some men do not know what love is. They take advantage of good women and think they will never leave.

The women must beg them for everything.

These same men, with ease and without being coerced, will do with someone else what the woman begged them for.

Practice patience but also practice when to let go…

Reems Sonson

Our Tropical Living

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The battle for decent Lucian men, let the competition begin

Do you think that “ghetto women” will now be pushed to date decent Lucian men due to a shortage of their kind?

Many young men are being killed in Saint Lucia and leaving young women with less men of “their kind” to choose from.

Statistics show that most of the recent killings are gang related and of certain demographics.

The heightened gang violence affects the number of men available for the women who prefer men who engage in criminal activity and live in the ghetto.

Some of these men are “bad boys” with a rough and daredevil manner which some women are attracted to.

They see no problem with the bad behavior portrayed and embrace these men for who they are.

What happens when these women no longer have these men to provide for them?

Competition

Less men in the ghetto might mean that the remaining men there will have multiple women to themselves. Women might also leave their neighborhood and seek the “bad boys” from the other ghetto communities.

Some women might no longer be interested in continuing to be with someone who participates in illegal activity hence might seek a decent man.

This will cause a competition between the ghetto women and the ordinary women as they seek men. Now, women will be on the guard because they have to compete to remain in a stable relationship with a good Lucian man.

Ripple effect

The ghetto women most likely will have no problem with fitting themselves in a family or between a couple. They merely seek someone to provide, feel a void and care for them.

They come ready to wreck homes and do not care because their needs which were once being met is no longer being fulfilled since their partner died.

They are fine with being the “side piece.” They have no problem with having sex with the men, infrequently spending time with them and getting money when necessary. They see what they do as a suiting arrangement.

The ghetto women promise lustier sex and sometimes offer sex for free with no strings attached. They may seduce the men and wear revealing clothing where nothing is left for the imagination.

The sexual advances they make at the men cause arousal and lust. Some men will be curious and interfere with these women to meet their sexual variety needs and satisfy their sexual appetite.

Decent wife or hoodrat

Sexual frustration and an unhappy marriage or relationship might make men be quick to get involved with these women and engage in extra relationships.

When the wife or main woman says, “I worked all day, I’m too tired” the jabal’s say, “come over when you are ready.” They are hardly ever too tired to please the man and meet his every sexual need.

The sexual acts the wife or main woman would not perform or would be coaxed into doing is done with ease and without persuasion by the ghetto women.

Win or lose

The ghetto women will be glad to share the men if they get what they want out of the relationship. However, the decent women might be problematic.

The women will fight over the men and get upset at each other. The men on the other hand, remain happy being with multiple women and having excitement from sneaking around.

Who will win the competition?

Please stop the violence!