Today I am shredding some positive light on our fine Black men.
Limited “useful” men
Finding a decent man to start a family with, build a future with and invest your all in has been within its challenges. Now more than ever it seems difficult to find a good Black man. It is even more difficult to want to continue dating Black men after being hurt many times.
There are many men who have died, are incarcerated, are gay, migrated, already in a committed relationship, joined the army and the balance are players and not interested in a serious relationship.
Who are straight women going to date?
Support our Black men
Some media outlets have portrayed Black men as being angry, sex offenders, murderers, thieves, abusers, drug addicts, promiscuous, in extreme poverty, socioeconomically deprived and prone to poor mental health and with a blurred future. This paints a negative image of our Black men and sometimes subconsciously affect how we feel about them.
Black people we need to support each other instead of fighting our own race. We need to stop the racism towards each other but rather love each other.
Top reasons dating a Lucian man is beneficial
1-This reason tops it for me so no need for an explanation. Lucian men are good in bed and well endowed. When you develop an emotional connection and deep attraction with a Lucian man, your every body part tingles when you see them.
2-Lucian men may have fears and insecurities and guard their emotions due to past trauma and bad relationships but as they gain your trust then they become devoted. They continuously work to ensure a successful relationship.
3-Some Lucian men may not be the wealthiest but they try to keep the romance, give you their time and keep a healthy relationship as best they can. A trying Black man is an ideal man.
4-Lucian men are loving, understanding, easy-going, supportive, pay attention to you and can make you their secret obsession. Lucian men can touch your soul and make your heart smile.
5-Lucian men are non-judgemental, can make you feel safe and you can be yourself around them and display all your bad habits because they accept you for who you are.
Women and false ideation
It is not a man’s job to make you happy. Women you are responsible for your own happiness and a man should be a contributor to your happiness. Women stop having a movie-like, fake or social media ideology of what your relationship should look and be like.
What you see out there is most times unreal and painted to fool you and change your mindset. Envy your relationship, work to improve it daily and not that of others. Do what works for you so you can be happiest.
Special note: the top reasons to date a Lucian man may or may not apply to all men.
Do you agree or disagree with the top reasons? Share and leave a response.
Also read
Reems Sonson
Ourtropicalliving.com
Come live and love island life
Social accounts to follow
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=reems+sonson
https://instagram.com/reemssonson
https://facebook.com/ourtropicalliving
This is not a paid or sponsored blog post but written based on multiple discussions about dating Lucian men, women’s expectations and men’s roles in a relationship.