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Your jabal, a side piece

Call them the side chick or side man. They love their role, they do not care and they are ready to steal your partner and replace you.

Are you the other woman or other man? Is being with a side piece being in a real relationship?

A jabal as well as a side piece occurs when two consenting adults engage in a sexual relation without commitment whilst one or both are committed to other people.

Basically, it is someone that you are with other than your partner.

Having a side piece could be merely for sex, to have someone to converse with or someone to support you or you them in ways that you both desire.

If you are single, can you be a side piece to a partner who is already committed to someone else?

Excitement

Some people get a thrill of secretly seeing their side piece. They have someone to do anything they want to with no attachments. It serves as someone of convenience.

They enjoy that there are no strings attached, no expectations and no desire to continue the relationship in the long run.

They do not mingle in each other’s daily lives and both go their separate ways after getting together.

Guilt free

Some people are fine with being the side piece and feel no guilt or remorse. They do whatever benefits them if they get what they want.

They prefer the excitement of being the side piece instead of being in a serious and committed relationship. They do not want to be a full-time partner.

They do not want the responsibility of cooking, cleaning, caring for a partner and being present all the time nor the hassle of living together.

They see each other at intervals, have hot sex and make the most of the time spent together.

The side piece accepts themselves as being second best.

Selfishness, self-centered or infatuation

Some people have a need for sexual gratification with no restraints so desire a side piece.

Some people are obsessed with being secretive with someone else and get a sense of adventure from looking over their shoulder and sneaking around.

They prefer leaving family activities to answer calls or have quick sex. Secret meetings, steamy texts and experiencing passion with someone else become a turn on.  

What happens when emotional intimacy occurs? Do you become attached to the side piece?

Competitor or partner snatcher

Sometimes the partner in the committed relationship does not want the side piece to see other people nor have sex with them. They do not want to have any competitor.

The side piece even when single must remain faithful to the partner although the partner is with someone else. They ultimately become jealous when the side piece goes on dates with other people.

Some people enjoy stealing someone else’s partner for a fling or long-term fulfillment. Many times, a side piece is with their partner for years and no one knows.

Some people prefer to compete with someone else to get a partner.

To some, people are more desirable when they are already in a relationship.

Common knowledge

Some side pieces explained that they both define what the relationship is and where it is headed.

They explain expectations, desires and set clear boundaries so no one could be misled or sidetracked.

They ensure they know they are the side piece and that one or both parties are in a relationship with someone else.

They expressed that they sometimes secretly date a side piece for years. Now, it is common practice for a side piece to be introduced to immediate loved ones and go on public outings.

Sometimes the main partner is aware of the side piece and is fine with the entanglement.

Let us discuss

What happens when the side piece wants you to leave your partner to be with them?

What if the side piece calls and texts you constantly or shows up to your house and workplace?

Will the side piece blackmail you or threaten to expose the relationship to your partner?

What do you do when the side piece sleeps around, leaves you abruptly or acts like they are your main partner?

What if the side piece leaves their partner to be with you and expects you to do the same?

What happens when either one of you fall in love with each other?

Reems Sonson

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Top reasons to date a Lucian woman

Lucian women can be the sweetest people you ever come across. They can be caring, loving, supportive and give a helping hand whenever necessary. Finding the right woman can be challenging but here are some of the basic qualities in a Lucian woman.

Dating a Lucian woman depends on what type of relationship you want. Please! When you are interested and start talking to a Lucian woman, make your intentions clear and be known and say exactly what you expect from the woman.

Women cannot read your mind so do not be childish, play them or make them believe that they are in a relationship with you and that is far from what is and what you want.

Men-if you want a fling, someone to hang out with, have causal sex with no strings attached, want a committed relationship or a friendship or want to settle down, have children and get married then LET LUCIAN WOMEN KNOW.

Top reasons dating a Lucian woman might benefit you

1-Some Lucian women are driven, go-getters, goal diggers, well educated, confident, independent, have a good job and have good finances. Some of these women come well equipped- have their own home, vehicle and are basically “move in ready” for men. Other Lucian women are self-reliant, industrious and love to work for their own money but do not mind getting some money from you as well but will not make it mandatory.

2- Some Lucian women are good in bed, will give you a good “grind” and meet all your sexual desires. If you are helpful and beneficial to these women, pay attention to them and they connect with you on a deep emotional level, oh my! The sex will make your digits curl, your body get hot yet shivery and have you feeling like you are in “heaven.” It will have you going back for more.

3-Some Lucian women want time, attention, loyalty and someone who is caring and there for them. With these women, it is not about “the Benjamins.” It is just you and them against the world. Some of these women can be sensitive so spend as much time as you can with them because they are really good women.

4-The probability of getting cheated on or dumped is very high when dating a Lucian woman. Some Lucian women do not tolerate nonsense and if they do, then they are just playing along. This is beneficial to you because it will ensure that you take her serious and “behave yourself.”

5-Some Lucian women want stability, a good quality life, settle down and want to see your effort. These women make good wives and mothers. Some of these women are very compassionate and forgiving. Even when they get hurt, they will forgive quickly and move on after amends.

6-Some Lucian women love to clean, cook and make the house and family look presentable. Some of these women are easy to get along with plus you will get a hot, home cooked meal and clean house.

7-Some Lucian women love tough men and tough love. They want someone who could challenge them, put them straight, tell them how it is, be rough with them sometimes and “deal with them accordingly.” Sometimes you have to show these women your ghetto side.

8-Some Lucian women are classy, good looking, well-dressed and always want to look “sexy.” Some of these women are always flashy and in style, wear matching outfits and look like they were meant to be in a catalogue.

9- Some Lucian women are fun, adventurous, love to have a good time and love to show a good time.  Some of these women if not most, love family time, get togethers and being around loved ones.

There you go! Some Lucian women can be the best match so know how to treat these Lucian women right. Know the woman’s intention before you begin a relationship and how she plans to use you or incorporate you into her life before you get hurt and categorize women as all the same.

Question? What qualities are you looking for in an ideal Lucian woman? Which qualities do you want that are hardest to find in a Lucian woman?

Reems Sonson

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This is not a paid or sponsored blog post but based on discussions with others and my knowledge, experiences and encounters. This blog post may or may not apply to some or all Lucian women.

Also read

Top reasons to date a Lucian man
Dangers of dating a Lucian man

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Dangers of dating a Lucian man

A Lucian man

Lucian men can be loving, caring, supportive, non-judgemental and good in bed but there are also drawbacks of dating a Lucian man. https://ourtropicalliving.com/top-reasons-to-date-a-lucian-man/

Some Lucian men invest a lot in women especially their money, time and resources. These women sometimes leave to be with another man or because they have already met their objectives. This scars men, make them label women and develop trust issues that they then carry into other relationships.  

However, most Lucian men usually see the early warning signs and red flags when they start dating a woman but believe that they will make her change. Lucian men need to own up to their decisions with the selection process they make when they choose to date a woman.

Special note: good looking women are more maintenance so choose your partner wisely!

Disadvantages of dating Lucian men

Some Lucian men have poor finances, are petty, laid back and have no ambition. These men are comfortable with their present situation and do not want to improve or make any adjustments for further success. They want to stay stagnant!

Lucian men can be very horny. In these men’s eyes women serve as bunnies. Some Lucian men do not perform house chores, give no help around the house and expect the woman to take charge of the household. House work can be tedious and tiring. When women live with these horny Lucian men they are expected to serve as a house maid and sex slave. What a combination! Moreover, these men always expect a hot home cooked meal.

Some Lucian men are unromantic, bad in bed, do not know how to make love nor use their tool. Yet these men expect women to “cum” quickly and be “wet” as soon as a sexual encounter commences.

The harsh reality is that many Lucian men do not want to get married nor settle down. These men will date a woman for many years and not marry her but marries the next woman that comes along. Some men might just get married after illness or in their old age.

Some Lucian men are not ready yet and are caught up with being a “momma’s boy.” These men live with their mom and want a woman to come over to have a good time and some might even ask the woman to move in too.

Some Lucian men love to drink alcohol, get drank and become physically abusive, stay at the bar with friends and love to sponsor drinks but hardly have money to take care of their family. These men prefer to hang out with their friends than spend time with their families. The bar, their friends and rum are their women.

Are we done yet?

No because some Lucian men are players, have multiple relationships and expect  women to accept it and be okay with their unfaithful and cheating ways. Plus some Lucian men are very flirtatious, have wondering eyes and love to stare at women’s behinds. These men although in a relationship love to send chats to women, make advances and “psst” women when they are passing.

Some Lucian men have outside children that they want women to accept as their own and even want women to coparent that other child.

Oh my, many Lucian men carry lots of baggage that women have to unload. Do not forget the baby momma drama and having to deal with all the exes.

Some Lucian men are liars and are emotionally unavailable so it is difficult to get through to them and connect emotionally. These men will lie to women even if there is proof and the woman saw with her own naked eyes.

Some Lucian men are lazy, want to eat women’s money, be dependent and are looking out for a “sugar momma.” These men want a woman to spoil them rotten and do not want to give the woman anything in return. Except sex of course.

Some Lucian men rather feed another woman’s child instead of their own child and rather pay child support instead of taking care of their child’s direct needs.

Some Lucian men are likely to get tired of their main woman and leave for another woman.

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Reems Sonson

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This is not a paid or sponsored blog post but based on discussions with people and my knowledge, experiences and encounters. Please note that I support all Lucian men, I am pro-choice and that this blog post may or may not apply to some or all Lucian men.

Also read “Top reasons to date a Lucian man.” Look out for Part 2 because some people said I did not give adequate reasons and they want more because it was a “hot read.”

Top reasons to date a Lucian man

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