The battle for decent Lucian men, let the competition begin
Do you think that “ghetto women” will now be pushed to date decent Lucian men due to a shortage of their kind?
Many young men are being killed in Saint Lucia and leaving young women with less men of “their kind” to choose from.
Statistics show that most of the recent killings are gang related and of certain demographics.
The heightened gang violence affects the number of men available for the women who prefer men who engage in criminal activity and live in the ghetto.
Some of these men are “bad boys” with a rough and daredevil manner which some women are attracted to.
They see no problem with the bad behavior portrayed and embrace these men for who they are.
What happens when these women no longer have these men to provide for them?
Competition
Less men in the ghetto might mean that the remaining men there will have multiple women to themselves. Women might also leave their neighborhood and seek the “bad boys” from the other ghetto communities.
Some women might no longer be interested in continuing to be with someone who participates in illegal activity hence might seek a decent man.
This will cause a competition between the ghetto women and the ordinary women as they seek men. Now, women will be on the guard because they have to compete to remain in a stable relationship with a good Lucian man.
Ripple effect
The ghetto women most likely will have no problem with fitting themselves in a family or between a couple. They merely seek someone to provide, feel a void and care for them.
They come ready to wreck homes and do not care because their needs which were once being met is no longer being fulfilled since their partner died.
They are fine with being the “side piece.” They have no problem with having sex with the men, infrequently spending time with them and getting money when necessary. They see what they do as a suiting arrangement.
The ghetto women promise lustier sex and sometimes offer sex for free with no strings attached. They may seduce the men and wear revealing clothing where nothing is left for the imagination.
The sexual advances they make at the men cause arousal and lust. Some men will be curious and interfere with these women to meet their sexual variety needs and satisfy their sexual appetite.
Decent wife or hoodrat
Sexual frustration and an unhappy marriage or relationship might make men be quick to get involved with these women and engage in extra relationships.
When the wife or main woman says, “I worked all day, I’m too tired” the jabal’s say, “come over when you are ready.” They are hardly ever too tired to please the man and meet his every sexual need.
The sexual acts the wife or main woman would not perform or would be coaxed into doing is done with ease and without persuasion by the ghetto women.
Win or lose
The ghetto women will be glad to share the men if they get what they want out of the relationship. However, the decent women might be problematic.
The women will fight over the men and get upset at each other. The men on the other hand, remain happy being with multiple women and having excitement from sneaking around.
Who will win the competition?
Please stop the violence!
Reems Sonson
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Sad state of affairs I must say, wasting their prime years in dead end relationships only to carry on as side pieces, then our society pays as their youth replenishes the cycle. Why is this so prevalent in black society? Is this some sort of sick destiny? Why can’t our women overcome this ridiculous “young and dumb” phase already, they just never learn. The dating pool is so small on this rock that it’s increasingly difficult to find decent females. Decent Lucian men often hold traditional values, which is why quite a few are now considering foreign women.
It is sad that both men and women spend their youth in bad relationships. It is a cycle Jean. Young people stay in bad relationships and act as side pieces sometimes then get older with the younger generation doing the same thing they did. It is difficult to get out of a toxic relationship especially when you have been with the person from a teenager. It is also difficult to get out of a relationship when you are a side piece. People dating people with their own family have real relationship issues because being a side piece is itself a relationship. It is difficult to find decent men and women to date Jean. People have their own agendas, are damaged from childhood and bring their childhood trauma into relationships and some have their own values about relationships. Now decent people do not want to date, are not emotionally invested, are not willing nor able and refuse to settle. Hence the reason people fit themselves with people who already have a family, they prefer being a side piece.
I believe typically the women who like bad boys will continue to like bad boys until life teaches them that choice is leading to nothing lasting and good.
Unfortunately by the time that lesson is learnt there are usually kids involved and they are the real victims of those bad choices.
And to the men that have something good be sure to recognise when you got a good thing going and don’t risk it for a biscuit!!!
I too agree that women who like bad boys will continue to like bad boys Michael. Sometimes these women end up with decent men because they need financial support. These men are not their preference but because of their circumstances they tolerate them. Sadly kids face a lot of trauma because of the parents bad choices. You provided great advice to men 😆.
This is an emerging situation that couples,and people in relationships will have to discuss,and eventually address because it’s inevitable!
Inevitable why Kenneth? It is customary to have a third person in a relationship these days. It seems to be a trend. I guess a discussion is needed for sure.
Love this. That’s accurate.
Yay that’s nice Winus. Thank you for commenting!