Some say men stay if they want to and others say men stay if they are treated right. What are your thoughts?
Different men
Some men get women to do everything for them.
These women go above and beyond. They keep themselves behind and choose these men over everything and everyone.
How to lose a man
The best way to lose a man is to be clean, cook the best meals and care most about them.
Love them unconditionally and give them money occasionally to look good and take care of their needs.
Stay faithful and be drama free and caring.
Consider them in all that you do.
Cater to their needs and give them sex regularly and ensure that it is the best.
Give them their “me time” and always try your best to see things from their point of view.
Nurse them back to good health when they are sick and even help their relatives when the need arises.
Put your time and effort into them. Make plans and include them.
Show no interest in other men.
Ah ha
Sadly, some women do all these things in hopes of keeping a man and it chases him faster.
The man might say, “what do you do for me, you do nothing for me or I didn’t ask you to do all that.”
No shame
Women can be their best selves for men and these same men will move on with no remembrance of the goodness of that woman.
Some men do not know what love is. They take advantage of good women and think they will never leave.
The women must beg them for everything.
These same men, with ease and without being coerced, will do with someone else what the woman begged them for.
Practice patience but also practice when to let go…
Reems Sonson
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This is by far one of the most toxic takes on the matter. This is the same thing that causes some of us women to be in relationships where we’re used for sex and then wonder where the good men have gone.
There is no problem doing any of that for your man. And in fact it should bring us joy to do it. If it does not then clearly you’re with the wrong man or you have fallen into the programming of this feminist morden agenda.
Some of us tend to say we do all this for men and they still leave. Same way a man can say they do many things for us and we still leave. As women we have to start to take accountability for our actions. We say we do all of this yet the man leaves. Why? Were we mistreating him because we didn’t get our way?
Were we making the 10% of the relationship we were not happy about destroy the other 90%?
Did we speak down to him making him feel disrespected?
Were we focused on what issues that we had and what was affecting us and never took the time to see where he was coming from?
Did we take him for granted and threaten to leave him with every argument?
Somethings we think there is no point in doing anything for a man because they will still leave. And try to justify by saying he will go be with someone else who will do none of that for him. But with the exception of some generally ungrateful men. There is more I keeping a man than the list you mentioned not to do. And asking ourselves the questions above could help with that.
Thank you for your comment, Nancy. I appreciate it. I agree that there is no problem with doing any of that for your man and it should bring women joy. Sometimes, women do all that for men and the men still leave even though they say they have a good woman or want no commitment with them and commit to someone else. Clearly, the woman was with the wrong man because another man would embrace a woman who treats them like this. I agree that men leave for reasons beyond how good a woman treats them, as you mentioned, sometimes women threaten to leave, etc. Truth is, a man stays if he wants to stay and leaves if he wants to leave no matter what women do or don’t do. I have seen men with good women treat them badly despite saying they have a good woman and a perfect relationship. They then end up with another woman who treats them worse and they stay with them. We never really see what good we have till it’s gone and equally, we know what good we have but we don’t care.